fix: correct service paths, nohup removal, MongoDB graceful fallback, add MariaDB + Caddy to startup

- Fix Qdrant binary path (services/ -> momentry_resources/bin/)
- Fix LLM binary/model paths (llama/ -> momentry_resources/llama/, models/ -> models/llm/)
- Fix PostgreSQL data path (pgsql/data -> momentry/var/postgresql)
- Remove nohup (fails in LaunchDaemon environment)
- Add MongoDB graceful fallback with 5s timeout in server.rs
- Add MariaDB + Caddy steps to startup script for WordPress
- Revert all unrelated changes

src/api/server.rs

@@ -1,4 +1,7 @@
+use std::time::Duration;
+
 use axum::Router;
+use tokio::time::timeout;
 use tower_http::cors::{Any, CorsLayer};
 
 use crate::core::cache::{MongoCache, RedisCache};
@@ -30,7 +33,21 @@ pub async fn start_server(host: &str, port: u16) -> anyhow::Result<()> {
     health::init_server_state(host, port);
 
     let embedder = std::sync::Arc::new(Embedder::new("nomic-embed-text-v2-moe:latest".to_string()));
-    let mongo_cache = MongoCache::init().await?;
+
+    // MongoDB is ONLY a cache layer — if unavailable, the server continues
+    // with Redis cache alone. This keeps both 3002 and 3003 bootable
+    // without requiring MongoDB to be installed or running.
+    let mongo_cache = match timeout(Duration::from_secs(5), MongoCache::init()).await {
+        Ok(Ok(cache)) => cache,
+        Ok(Err(e)) => {
+            tracing::warn!("MongoDB cache unavailable (continuing without): {e}");
+            MongoCache::disabled().await
+        }
+        Err(_) => {
+            tracing::warn!("MongoDB init timed out (continuing without cache)");
+            MongoCache::disabled().await
+        }
+    };
     let redis_cache = RedisCache::new()?;
     let db = PostgresDb::init().await?;